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Do You Tip The Mom Bloggers That You Read?

   Seth Godin posted this amazing little post, “Ads are the new online tip jar“. In it he talks about how clicking on an ad is like tipping the person who wrote the content that you’re reading. I’ve tried to be very conscious of tipping the websites that I’ve visited over the years but the question is, have you?

   You know many times we get so caught up in our own struggle to succeed in our own ventures that we forget about the people who are in the same boat as us. Think of all of the moms (and dads) out there, who are really hoping to be able to make an income by blogging or providing some seriously useful content because they want to stay at home with their kids. Then there are millions of visitors who hit these sites everyday taking every ounce they can get in the way of information, resources, tips, etc.. and they never even bother to click on a single ad or leave even the tiniest little comment.

   The point is, let’s all try to do some conscious surfing today. Support the smaller blogs and sites that you visit. Leave a comment. Click on an ad. It’s a super easy way to say, “thank you for spending hours thinking, researching, writing, and editing that. It really enhanced my life today.” Pay it forward mamas. To give is to recieve. :)

P.S.  I don’t currently have a single paid ad running on this site. His post just really struck me. Your comments, however, are always sincerely welcomed and appreciated. Blog on!

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The Ultimate Mom Blogger Resource & Link List

   This list has enough on it that it could take weeks just to read every link and page that goes from here. There are literally hundreds of different applications that can help you with your applications. The problem is you got a business to run, a blog /website to maintain and the kids to feed. Who’s got time to hunt it all down?! Well, I did a bit of leg work (or finger work as it may be) and compiled this list of amazing resources for blogs and websites. If you are in need of a tool, widget, or gadget chances are it may be listed here.

   Just passing on a little time love in the mom Internet universe. Enjoy those extra minutes you’ve just saved. Lord knows, you’ve earned them. Surf on!

For Bloggers:

List of 150+ Things Related to Blogs and Blogging – One of the most extensive lists that I’ve seen in one place for blogging resources.

Food Blog S’Cool – Lots of great info over here. You can observe even if you don’t have a food blog.

WordPress Podcast – Listen for awhile when your working on your site. Multi-tasking at it’s best!

How Do You Judge A Blog Post As A Success? - By Lorelle  See how lots of other bloggers guage their posts

Power Blogging Tips: Comment On Blogs From Within Google Feed Reader – Ok, so commenting and visiting your Internet neighbors is part of being, well, neighborly. Leave more comments in less time so you can visit more of your friends and leave more comments. Let’s call it “speed commenting”.

Free blogging calendar template – Get yourself on track with an editorial calendar to help you plan what you are going to write about and when

Slumber Parties Go Digital - From the NYTimes  Hmm… the info here somehow suggests that perhaps women aren’t supposed to have their real lives online (you know – othering, shopping for everything because there’s noone else to do it, taking care of the kids, cooking, etc.,etc..) or perhaps they’ve lost/misinterpreted the message on the female demographic altogether.

Blog Writing & Other Blogging Resources - A page with various resources and ideas for bloggers.

Social Networking:

50 Ways To Use Twitter for Business – Lots of info about Twitter ettiquette in general

50 Easy Ways To Improve Your Twitter Experience – Lots of 3rd party Twitter applications and tools listed as well as a nice list of blog posts about Twitter and how to use it.

TwitBuzz -  Content filtering service that tracks and follows the latest popular links, conversations and people on Twitter

50 Successful Social Media Sites You’ve Never Heard Of - Find a new place to hang out or to get yourself noticed

Online Communities:

BloggingZoom

Large Blog Rolls:

Top 50 PR Blogs – Learn more about how to get the word out from some of the best in the business

Misc. Tools & Resources:

Google Insights – See what the world is searching for

Big List Of Squidoo Tools & Resources

30+ Mind Mapping Tools – Get your thoughts in order and make that plan to make your business (and bottom line) grow with a little hlep from this list.

Top 10 Printable Paper Productivity Tools List – Neat list of printables from LifeHacker. The Printable CEO is particularly cool. Which led me to the following link..

Printable CEO Series – If you need to get your productivity in gear because you spend more time chasing your tail than getting thigs done when you do have a spare moment, check this page out for some tools.

Maine SEO Blog – Great blog with some super targeted info on search engines and getting good rankings

Top 7 Disposable Email Services – If you go around signing up for freebies and the like, you may need one of these.

Inspiration:

These links are for those days when you could really use some motivation to keep you going and get you focused.

Beating Back Discouragement

Digital Inspiration – How Much Money Do I Make From Adsense & Blogging – A fella with a blog in India shares some info about his hits and income

Blogging Experiment – May 2008 income report

A Small Empire Built On Cuddly & Fuzzy Branches Out From The Web - If this lady can do it, why not you!

What are your absolute favorite blogging resources, posts, or pages? What did I miss? Leave a comment for this blog post and share what you know.

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A Green Guide For Families (Easy Environmental Ideas That Actually Make An Impact)

   Ok folks, I don’t think I’ll be installing solar panels anytime soon. They are just too expensive. So here’s a great list of real things you can do that will actually make an impact on the trail your family leaves behind on the planet and save some green to boot.

   Let’s think in terms of what a family uses alot of.

1. Grocery bags – Get reusable ones. Let the kids carry them into the store.

2. CFL bulbs – I don’t know about you but someone small is always leaving a light on at my house. Big culprits? Closets, bathrooms, garage, laundry room.

3. Buy biodegradable trash bags – Hopefully at least the bag will degrade so that what I put in it can break down too.

4. Recycle – Free, easy, and definitely makes an impact.

5. Laundry detergent- I do way more laundry now that I have two little ones. Get yourself something eco friendly. Your local water supply will thank you.

6. Dishwasher gel / powder – Ditto from number 5.

7. Compost- I cook more often and in particular, I fix alot more fresh stuff. Stop putting the peelings in the trash. Get a small bucket to collect your food scraps in. Let one of your kids haul it outside and put it in the compost  pile.

8. Commit to a “no-waste” lunchbox. 5 lunches per week X (Number of children living at your house) X (Number of weeks per year your children are off to daycare/preschool/school X (Number of bags used per lunch, usually 1 or 2) = OUCH! This one really adds up. Put the chips in a resealable plastic container. Get a reusable drink container for juice / water, etc..

9. Stop buying “snack packs” to pack for lunches or to give kids after school.Who are we kidding? It’s alot of waste for 30 seconds of convenience. Buy a bigger size and scale it down yourself in a reusable container. You’ll save alot of money here too.

10. Low-flow Toilets- With potty training and more people in general using our potty now, we flush way more than before. Especially when you consider that a potty training child (or even one way younger than that) is totally mesmerized by the swirl created by a toilet flush! Replace old toilets with low-flow toilets that use less gallons of water per flush.

11. Low-flow shower heads – If you have teenagers, get low flow shower heads too!

12. Low-flow faucet aerators – This is the little screen on your faucet. It adds air into the water by blocking some of the open space where water comes out. Great for families where they just won’t turn off the water while brushing teeth / shaving / washing hands.

13. Give your cast-offs to charity or Goodwill. – Consumerism is alive and well in America. Most American families probably have more than entire villages of people in developing countries. And let’s not forget how quickly kids grow out of their clothes and toys! Don’t throw the leftovers in the trash. Find a home for it. Many charities will even pick-up your items at your house, if you call them.

14. Recycle the odd-ball stuff.Yes, the main contribution here is time. Recycle your old cell phones, computers, leftover paint, old computers, printer cartridges, helium tanks from birthday parties, cordless phone batteries, CFL bulbs (they have some mercury in them), etc., etc., etc.. Even Crocs (yes, the shoes) can be recycled now.

15. Choose your plates carefully. Use real plates at home whenever possible. A plain paper towel works great to hold a sandwich instead of a paper plate. A paper plate is more biodegradable than a plastic one. A real cup or paper one is more biodegradable than a plastic one.

16. Get a filtering water pitcher for the fridge instead of buying plastic water bottles. You could also use a water delivery service, if you just have to have bottled water taste.

17. Use your local farmer’s market more often.Here in Charlotte, NC we have several farmer’s markets that are open during the week, not just on the weekends. Find out what markets there are in your town where you can buy local. This saves the gas from growing point to final destination, which can easily be from Chile or Brazil or even Thailand! Let’s face it – kids eat alot and often, so that’s a lot of gas saved in a year.

What do you use alot of at your house? Leave a comment to this blog post and let me know.

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Are you giving your little kid soda? Are you nuts??!!

   Ok folks, I really have to vent here. What I would really love to know is how many of you out there are giving your young child soda? Come on, fess up! Hopefully, the intelligent readers of Momville.com will absolutely know better than to do this. If not, it’s time for a little lecture. <you can hear sounds of a soapbox being pulled out>

   This blog entry was spurred on by something I read over at http://lifestylelaboratory.com/articles/nutrition-effects-stress.html  Here is a direct quote:

“In two- to five-year-olds, sugars, candy, and sweetened fruit drinks were major sources of carbohydrates, followed by soft drinks. In the six to 11 age group, soft drinks, sweetened cereals, cakes, cookies, and sweetened fruit drinks were the favorites. In teens, almost four-tenths, or 40 percent, of sugar calories came from soft drinks! Among 15-year-olds, the United States ranked among the top three countries where kids eat sweets, chocolate, and soft drinks every day!”

My Response

   What is soda? It is water, food coloring, fizz (which interferes with calcium in the body), CAFFEINE, and sugar. Some sodas also have food coloring, etc.. Do I drink soda? Yep… trying to quit. Do I give it to my two kids, ages 6 and 3? Absolutely, positively NOT. My son has been instructed and personally coached to flat out refuse soda anytime that it is offered to him. So what are his preferred drinks? Water, followed by milk and juice (watered down). That is exactly what a child’s drinks SHOULD be. Think 1950’s. Think about your child’s health. For goodness sakes, think about their teeth and the eating/drinking habits that you are setting them up for during their lifetime!

   Do you honestly think that you are doing your kid any favors by giving them a liquid stimulant drug? Are you kidding yourself? Would you give your child a cold, sweet cup of coffee? I certainly hope not. If so, perhaps there are other details of their health, nutrition, and physical fitness well being that you are missing as well.

So What Do You Do?

1.    Don’t take my word for it! Get other opinions. Ask around to some of the healthiest, most active people you know or can find. Ask a stranger! (I’m not kidding.) Do they give their kids soda? Then ask them what they do give their kids to drink. Call your pediatrician and ask them for advice. For God’s sake, call a nutritionist and set up a personal appointment for a consultation (you can find them online or in the phonebook). Get them to give you the run down on all of the latest thinking in regards to healthy eating / drinking for your child’s age group (as well as your own).

2.   Don’t succumb to peer pressure! If it’s all that is being offered, then get your kid a glass of water. I recently had my son’s birthday party at a bowling alley. Having been to a similar party or two, I knew that the standard fare would be pizza and soda. I specifically requested that NO soda be served. Instead, we had a pitcher of water and fruit punch. There was a pitcher of iced tea available for the parents.

   I’m reminded of seeing a child, who had to be no older than 3 years old, sitting in a shopping cart and being handed a bottle of Mountain Dew by his Dad. How sad. He probably got a spanking later for not wanting to take his nap while the parents sat around oblivious to the fact that they are feeding their child a stimulant. Perhaps they don’t even care. That’s even sadder.

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